The thing is that VICTIM MENTALITY will never promote confidence and fierceness. People of such mindset will mull over the wrongs and throw pity parties galore. It’s a waste of breath to suggest they can do something about it. Oh, the mobs of “survivors” who will drown in an ocean of “poor me” till the day they die. (Have you ever tried AA, AL-Anon, or ACA meetings?) Most don’t care about recovery, taking responsibility, or changing their life; it’s about misery loves company, and please enable me some more! It’s like trying to get an alcoholic sober when he doesn’t see the problem. Stay true to yourself!

“When has a dragon ever died of a poison of a snake?” - Nietzsche